I have never really talked about my parenting style here, but I don't believe in all the parenting fads (Dr. Sears, Ferber, etc). I think that some of the ideas are helpful and work well with certain babies, but all babies/children are different. I take more of a trial and error approach with parenting and so far so good! Ben eats well, sleeps through the night, and naps well. He is walking, talking, loves to read, play, and is (for the most part) well behaved.
I found a baby horoscope that so perfectly describes Ben that I have to share it with you all.
About the Aries Child
A Natural-Born Leader
If your Aries son or daughter was born ahead of schedule, it should come as no surprise: Aries children are always pushing ahead of the pack. With an "Are we there yet?" outlook, they are impatient to arrive and get started already! Ben was 2 weeks early
Aries children possess a passionate, creative, and restless nature. They seem to have more energy than other children, with a vitality that's matched only by their natural bravery. Their "me first" attitude can be a challenge for anyone who has to contend with their high spirits and frequent self-absorption. Ben thinks he is the center of attention ALWAYS and is Fearless!
Legendary for their straightforward honesty, Aries children tell it like they see it. They can overstep boundaries because they're naturally impulsive and tend not to look before they leap.
As the parent of a young Aries, you're probably no stranger to epic temper tantrums. Yes, Aries children have a hard time keeping their emotions under control, but there's a positive side to this: They don't hold a grudge. Once the fireworks are over, so is their anger. Ben can get so angry and throw himself on the floor, but in a moment will be laughing an happy as can be.
Since Aries children are great at starting grand projects but not as keen on sticking with them, you'll need to be patient as you guide your child gently but firmly, helping her stay on track.
Also make sure she gets plenty of exercise. Any vigorous activity will be an excellent outlet for her energy, and if it's a competitive sport, so much the better. But be sure she wears a helmet or any other essential safety gear. In their eternal hurry, Aries children tend to be accident-prone. Ben is Go Go Go. He goes stir crazy if we stay home all day long. We often go to the store or park just to get out of the house.
Look at what your child's horoscope is! http://www.babycenter.com/horoscopes
